Monday, March 29, 2010

Is he Mr. Right?

Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap without looking, take an honest inventory. See how many of the following five essential traits he possesses.
Dating Trait #1: He listens to you
The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthyof) being a candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You'll know he's listening when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you've told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend's name, etc.), and offers emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways.
Dating Trait #2: He connects with you easily
We've all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process). When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don't have to force anything, forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you communicate and collaborate with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction, you are on to something really special.
Dating Trait #3: He wants the real you
So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right relationship, there's no need. You don't have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your fabulous life. With the right partner, you're not only able to be yourself, but you're better able to be the best version of your most authentic self -- no compromises needed.

Dating Trait #4: He's trustworthy
A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over time, trust is based on the simple belief system that your partner has your best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100 percent trustworthy, you'll have no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he'll most likely give you his heart and pave the way for a lasting, loving relationship to unfold.
Dating Trait #5: He enriches your life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You'll know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally, and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!
Does your Mr. Next possess all five qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success.
If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of who you want to date. Remember, finding your life partner isn't always easy, but by being clear, honoring yourself, and acting accordingly, you'll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately make room for Mr. Right. 

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Gave up shopping

As an Catholic, this is the time of year when we have to give up something for lent. Lent, is a Christian tradition, is the period of the liturgical year leading up to Easter. This lent season last for 40 days, where we have to "give up" or "fasting" for any kind of food, festivities, and by other acts of penance. Some people gave up meat, smoking, alcohol, clubbing, fast foods, and for me, i gave up SHOPPING.  Yes, shopping is one my fave thing to do when i am bored, sad, depressed, happy, any mood i am, shopping makes me happy. =D.  And so far, i am doing a good job for not shopping for almost a month.  There are times when i feel  tempted, but other things distract me so the urge to shop stop. =] But once in awhile, i would wander my eyes here and there... I've been eying on these for a while now and just want to share with you all. =]

Wednesday, March 10, 2010


Hey everyone, i know i been skipping blogging again, but i have my reasons for the cause of that. My car got stolen last week and i've been weeping over it since now. It did not came back fully recovered, so i had to let the car go.  Now i have to look for a car to buy which really sucks cuz i am dead broke! This has been a bad year for me, i donno what God plans is for me but as of now, i am stressed about everything! Money, car, school, blah blah blah...i hope blogging again will be my stress reliever so i don't have to weep over this bad luck tragic!  Tutorials and month favs. things will be posted up soon.  Hope you all have a nice week!

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